subStatement = con.prepareStatement("DELETE FROM character_macroses WHERE char_obj_id=?;");
subStatement.setString(1, rset.getString("obj_Id"));
subStatement.executeUpdate();
DatabaseUtils.closeStatement(subStatement);
// friends
subStatement = con.prepareStatement("DELETE FROM character_friends WHERE char_id=? or friend_id = ?;");
subStatement.setString(1, rset.getString("obj_Id"));
subStatement.setString(2, rset.getString("obj_Id"));
subStatement.executeUpdate();
DatabaseUtils.closeStatement(subStatement);
// boxaccess